A Better Me

This is more of a follow-up to my last blog, because for those that didn't go out on Valentines Day haven't lost a thing...at all! In fact they probably gained something from it, and they don't even know what yet.

But I gotta ask, why do you need to have a girlfriend for Valentines Day? I mean, if you don't think the girl is interesting - or of some quality - but yet you're seeing her on Valentines Day cause you want a girlfriend for that day then doesn't that not make you desperate and needy?

So what can you do then?

Here's what I propose: Be better at being yourself!! That's right, be a better you. Something that we all get so caught up in is how we look to people, how we come across to people, and to be very honest girls subliminally sense this sense of approval/validation. This is not a "how to get a great girl" blog or a "here's my tips to being successful" blog...this is a "friendly tip that should help you" blog.

How do you be a better you?

Simple, do all the things you love without trying to please anyone. Using me as a scenario: I dance and sing, love video editing and socialise with people. What I'll be doing from now on is try to do these things without needing approval from anyone.

But how does this help?

Simple, the power comes from within - there is no need to try. Think about it, once you are a satisfied person you aren't going to live life with regrets or be scared of challenges. In fact people will love the fact that you know what is best for you and how you won't be swayed by pressure...that comes from an act of neediness or desperation. Believe me you don't want to do that.

Plus you also gotta have time to yourself too, and no I don't mean wanking time, you gotta know what you want from life before you even achieve anything.

Besides, I've given a lot of space for you to figure out wht my post means to you.

To be put in better terms, you don't feel good because you've got a great girlfriend - you've got a great girlfriend because you feel good. Make sense?

*Signing Out*