Attacking without Perspective or Knowledge...or Common Sense

You're probably looking at the title thinking "WTF Chaz? What could you be leading onto with this??" Well it is actually something that a lot of people do without realising what the consequences possibly are.

Lemme elaborate on what I mean:

Do you ever have a friend, a friend that is one to complain about how someone is behaving? I don't mean in the sense that someone is mocking another and they get annoyed - that happens everywhere; I mean you have a person in your life that keeps nagging at how someone keeps acting like this towards them, not caring for them this, acting like a douche that...and this person then comes out with bullshit like "oh they lost me" "you don't love me really" "this was all an act from you" and such other related quotes that, if i'm honest, sound like they come from some shite band lyrics.

Have you ever thought that there is a reason why they are acting like this? It doesn't just happen out of the blue!

What I'm going to do may sound like I'm being a lil' harsh, but I'll be putting too many people in their place it'll turn shameful. But really, you'll be surprised.

Take a guy. A normal guy. What traits does a normal guy have? He will have been brought up in a moderate environment, have regular friends, will treat people with respect and will be an overall nice guy.

Put a woman into that scenario, with the guy.

Let's start with a girl that has little quality to them, but are "hot" by society's standards. If you put a negative force against something that is positive, you could essentially turn that positive force into a negative one. What would be the realisation in this case? You'll get a girl being bitchy as hell, expecting so much to come from a relationship, that the guy will just be turned off and hit back with negativity. What happens after? It's just a throwback of negativity from each side until one person calls it quits.

But put it this way: The girl probably doesn't know what is wrong, she doesn't know of other perspectives because she hasn't been exposed to them.
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Normally:

Low quality girl + low quality man = LOW QUALITY RELATIONSHIP

Low quality girl + High quality man = LOW QUALITY RELATIONSHIP

High quality girl + low quality man = LOW QUALITY RELATIONSHIP

High quality girl + high quality man = HIGH QUALITY RELATIONSHIP

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It is only when this low quality girl is with a guy who is of high quality that things don't go her way, in fact they'll go the opposite way because what she is used to won't come into the equation at all...it is only when she pushes it on that the relationship crumbles.

How can I put this into words that'll give you a realistic vision of this? She won't think she's done anything wrong! Because of her social upbringing (peer pressure, pressure from the media and such) she'll think that the image that she has is one that people should want to have.

Let's think about it from the guy's situation:

He is quite content just doing his own thing, is neutral about a lot of things and just acts normally. He gets this girl that looks attractive but has the personality of a wet battery, he'll wonder WTF she's playing at. This'll be such a change for him he'll turn sour, I don't blame him.

But if you get the normal guy and you give him a high quality girl, there will be a lot of playing around but it's all done with mutual attraction. There wouldn't be any stroppy childish problems involved, sure there will be problems like in all relationships but it wouldn't be about anything low quality.

What am I trying to get at here? I've said quite a bit about low quality people and the problems they cause in relationships...what am I getting at?

The reason why these guys are acting against you is because...OF YOU!!

Can't you not see that?? Can't you not see that the reason these people are being seedy to you is because you're being such an emotional, low quality, spoilt pretentious bitchy douchebag?????

This is what I'm talking about with another perspective. This is the perspective of an outsider, a perspective that most people do not see. It is only once they see this other perspective that they get panicky and upset and want to do so much to change but yet everything is hitting them at once, they can't cope??

This is where things will get a lil' different, because they will not know how they should approach what now.

I find it kind of sad that people don't realise how they come across to people, I thought that was a normal thing to do in life. Come on it's so simple, you give respect where it's due and treat people as equals...nuff said.

So what can these people do then to not come across as an emotional, low quality, spoilt pretentious bitchy douchebag?

A paradigm shift.

You gotta change your whole perspective, your whole mindset of life. Step by step. CHANGE!

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I'm going to be very honest here. It is stuff like this that makes me unattracted to people that do this, especially girls! Do you wonder why you end up with the same low quality guys, chill with the non-achievers and can't seem to escape? It's this!

This doesn't just go for girls by the way, there are a lot of douchebag guys that are like this but the situation is a lil' different to them.

So

Maybe before you start blaming the world for your problems you'll realise that you cause them? Maybe before you see bad in people, you'll realise you put that bad thing in them? Maybe before you start complaining, you start thinking.

They call it Common Sense and yet hardly anyone uses it. Shame.

*Signing Out*